The question that has come up more often in coaching and energy sessions in the past month. “What if everything falls apart?”

What if it does? Is that really a bad thing?

In my life, I know I have felt as though everything was most deffinatly falling apart with no hope of working out. This feeling has come about more than once and let me tell you I am not going there again. Bold statement, right….?

You are probably wondering how I can make such a statement. Well I have discovered that although it might seem as though everything is falling apart, the universe is conspiring to allow me the space in which to create a different possibility. Just because I decided my life should be _____ or it should look like ______, how am I to know that is the best choice for me. I have intuition and an astute awareness of where my life is going and when I make a choice that hasn’t worked out in the best way, the fix is simple…. I make another choice.

I know… I hear you… “Well if you were wrong and made a bad choice the first time, how do you know you will make a better choice this time?” Well, you don’t know unless you try and follow your intuition, your built in guidance system. I am not talking about forcing what you want to happen. It’s that light feeling you get, the bubbly, tingly, sparkling joy you get, that makes you want to lunge forward in the direction of that choice. When you get “that” feeling, it’s different for everyone, move in that direction.

If on the other hand the feeling you get is heavy, sticky, icky, opposite of the lightness, walk, no run away from that choice. Unless of course you want to create a big pile of poo to clean up, and some people enjoy that kind of thing.

I can tell you from experience that it isn’t comfortable to change what you’ve always done, and perhaps that is why your world has imploded or exploded. You’ve resisted change for so long. Thinking that by not choosing, you could just stay where you are nice and comfortable, but alas you find yourself at some point in hip waders, possibly in disbelief and sheer panic, frantically shovelling away at that pile of s**t that now lays at your feet. If you are there, your first step is to breathe, a nice deep breath and then ask a question and feel the energy around that question.

Is it light or heavy?

So now I ask you…, “What happens when you make a different choice?

Joy, Love & Awareness,

Wanda